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In other ares, WEDS Groups are known as Circles, Image, or Share Groups
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The acronym
WEDS
has two different meanings
WEDS
– as Weekend Follow-up for Journeying with other in WEDS Groups
(Witness,
Enrich,
Dialogue,
Support)
Witness
We witness to one another by sharing our experiences. We become
family.
Enrich
We enrich each other by passing along ideas and resources, and by
sharing ourselves.
Dialogue
We
continue to dialogue with our spouse so that we might grow ever closer
to him/her. We believe that daily dialogue is a source of keeping our
relationship alive and fruitful.
Support
We support one another in our goal of keeping our love for our spouse
ever growing deeper. Love gets deeper and deeper when it is nurtured
and fed. Our WEDS group is one source of that nurturing and feeding
process.
WEDS
– as Instruction for Dialogue
(Write,
Exchange,
Dialogue,
Select)
Write..
..your
love letter to an already chosen question for 10 minutes. Write for
the full 10 minutes. Use the hot pen method. Describe your feelings in
a way that will be relatable to your spouse.
Exchange..
..your love letter when you get together silently and lovingly, as
this is a gift of yourselves to one another. Read each other's love
letter twice silently. The first time read for the head. The second
reading is for the heart. Go beyond the words and try to absorb the
person and his/her feelings.
Dialogue..
..after you have read the letters twice. Decide which of you expressed
the stronger feeling. Dialogue on the feeling for 10 minutes. Once you
have exhausted all the ways to describe the feeling or your 10 minutes
is up, the dialogue should be brought to closure.
Select..
..a question for the next day's dialogue now. Do not wait or it may
not happen. Choose a question about things that are pertinent to your
relationship. Take turns choosing questions.
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